We’ve all heard about chastity—the tiny cages where all of your “sins” are kept locked away. But did you know that many people actually love the feeling of being controlled, dominated, and teased?
It’s fascinating how something originally linked to purity and self-control has evolved into a sex practice, both in private and within relationships. For some, chastity has even become a lifestyle. And the best part? It’s genderless, so anyone can explore it whenever the idea appeals.
Chastity vs. “Chastity”
Sure, many of us have watched those guru videos about chastity as a virtue—a test between you and your future spouse, often in absurdly luxurious settings. Reality check: those are often scams. They’re not about self-control or intimacy—they’re about money. Life is better enjoyed with a healthy balance of pleasure and self-care, not overhyped challenges.
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The type of chastity I’m talking about is the one that has exploded online, the one that makes your sex life spicier with less actual sex. It’s about mind control, anticipation, and teasing—and it can be surprisingly intense.
How modern chastity works
At its core, chastity is about adding a twist to sexual experiences. Encaging your genitals and giving control to your partner—including whether you get to orgasm—can be incredibly arousing. But it doesn’t stop there: this little shift opens up creativity in pleasure, letting you focus on areas you might normally overlook—nipples, P-spot, testicles, or even your whole body.
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It’s not just about denial—it’s about expanding your sensory experience and exploring new dimensions of intimacy and control.
Give them the keys
Here, your partner takes the lead, and you step into the role of their willing “prisoner.” This practice requires complete trust, so it’s essential to have a thorough conversation beforehand about your expectations, limits, and the structure of this experience.
Chastity in this context is more than physical restraint—it’s a mental and emotional game. You’ll develop empathy, self-control, and communication skills, because there will be moments when you can’t speak, and your partner will need to read your mind through facial expressions and subtle cues.
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Handing over the keys is an act of trust and intimacy, showing that you can fully surrender your body—and your desires—into your partner’s hands. Make sure to discuss:
Duration: How long will the chastity period last?
Boundaries: Where and when will it be enforced?
Consent: Are both of you fully comfortable and committed?
This is a shared journey, and its success depends on mutual respect, communication, and trust.
What is going on inside of their ….. ?
Inside the cage, your body becomes a playground of pleasure and frustration, every touch and brush sending sparks through your nerves. The confinement amplifies every movement, making even the smallest shift feel electric.
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Your partner holds the power, guiding every motion, teasing, pressing, controlling the rhythm and intensity. You never know when a wave of sensation will hit or fade, leaving you hungry, frustrated, and craving more.
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Chastity doesn’t let desire fade—it builds anticipation, stretches it, teases it to the limit. Every touch feels sharper, every signal more intense, and the uncertainty of what comes next keeps your mind spinning.
By the end, your body may be restrained, but your mind is alive, on fire, and craving the next moment.
Final Bonus
Chastity is more than just physical restraint—it’s a game of anticipation, control, and psychological intensity. When paired with BDSM and role play, whether as a submissive bottom or a dominant top, every touch, tease, and command becomes electrifying.
Adding practices like pegging or edging takes it further, turning frustration into heightened pleasure. Each wave of denied release sharpens your senses, making every brush of skin, every subtle movement, and every command feel charged with tension.
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The thrill isn’t just about erections—it’s about surrender, trust, and anticipation. In chastity, every moment of restraint becomes part of the pleasure, and the journey itself is the ultimate reward, keeping desire alive, intense, and irresistible.
If you think chastity is your multiple-choice topping or just an exciting addition to your nights of love and daily routine, I want to hear from you. Share your thoughts, experiences, or curiosities, and let’s dive into this thrilling world together. See you soon!
Did you ever have fantasies about controlling electricity, transforming into Thor, the god of thunder? Well, this is not the post you are searching for.
Tesla was not prepared for the many different uses a Tesla coil would eventually have. Still, using small electrical zaps has always been fascinating.
Origins
Do you remember the classic scene of students giving electric shocks to frog legs? After that, the legs magically begin to contract, as if the frog’s spirit were still there. If we discard the ideas of frogs and spirits, the explanation is actually much simpler—and much older than you might think.
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We have to go back to the past , years 1800s . During that time, electrical belts were designed and sold as cures for impotence. Lust ran largely out of control, and it was not until the early 1900s that such devices stopped being seen as legitimate treatments and began to be questioned.
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Human fascination with electricity goes even further back. In Ancient Egypt, electric fish were used as a form of healing therapy.
As always, when sex enters the equation, human creativity tends to break walls that were never supposed to be broken.
How it works?
This therapy is usually used in BDSM sessions, where the dom or sadist uses a remote control. They send shocks that might be used as pain for the sub or to trigger uncontrollable impulses. The usual format of these toys focuses on erogenous zones, such as the penis, the big “O”, the nipples, and the vagina.
The idea of this practice is to switch the power until you reach the point where it hurts but is still pleasurable, right at the limit of IT HURTSSSS STOPPPP. If you want to have a really intense experience, the BDSM modality is like the hard mode in video games, way more extreme than its brother.
Red Flags
As with all practices, this one carries some risks if you don’t do it carefully. Make sure the intensity you use is appropriate, and remember that while the voltage adapts to your body’s resistance, this does not mean it is safe near the thorax. This practice can be safe and pleasurable, but you need to pay attention. You are playing with electricity, and the only thing that makes it safer is the high impedance of your body.
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Be aware of what you are doing. Wet skin can burn you, and long sessions at high intensity may cause neuropathic damage. If you have epilepsy, heart problems, or any infection, stay away from this technology—you don’t want to cause damage that cannot be repaired.
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Do not consume drugs. Do not use items that were not designed for sexual practices. Stay in full control of your body at all times, and at the first minimal warning sign, turn it off. It is always better to lower the intensity a little than to cause harm you may later regret.
Green Flags
As simple as it sounds, the total experience is far more intense and different than anything you’ve experienced before. The use of electricity can contract pelvic muscles, making the session even more exciting. Let’s do some basic training.
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The BDSM benefits are all about trust, communication, and higher peaks of dopamine. For pain lovers, damage is always on the list—I’m one of them. It’s not just about the pain, it’s about the mix of sensations that makes you beg for more pleasure.
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We all know the red flags are bigger than the green flags, but the key is that with caution, almost all red flags disappear, enhancing the green ones. It may sound dangerous and difficult, but with patience and good communication, it can be as safe as any other consensual practice.
After all this explanation, are you still interested in transforming into the omega of an electrical circuit, or do you prefer to be the bad B at the police station?
Remember: listening is just as important as doing. Communication is your real safety switch. Have fun, little bulbs.
Sorry, we really don’t know how to make cupcakes or pretzels, but… we know something better that you should try — it’s called Muffing.
What is muffing?
The name “Muffing” comes from the book “Fucking Trans Women” . We know that muffing could be related to baking (muffins , baking , cakes , etc…) — after all, everyone wants to dip the finger on «Nutella » because no one wants to miss it .
Apply this idea to another part of your body that are not your buns. Fans of BBNO$ (we love BBNO$) or members of the trans community — often affectionately called “the dolls” — could also enjoy this explosive practice without having a kitty cat.
Have you ever missed your “Queen’s Crown Jewels”? Traditional sumo wrestlers and cold swimmers are used to this strange magic trick when the wizard comes, and, like in a Dan Da Dan episode, your treasure disappears.
We could call it a pool game, introducing the 8-ball into the pocket — anything else is left to your imagination.
Bakery tutorial
We aren’t Gandalf, and we show our tricks — f***k you, Gandalf.
Without using any complex words, we’ll show you how to do it. Ready?
Get a “bubble” in your hand, apply a little pressure, and you’ll see the entire path your balloon takes. Even before it “disappears,” your finger will follow that path until you reach your inguinal canal.
This practice isn’t as dangerous as it might sound. You should be patient on your first attempt. Remember, this part of the body isn’t naturally made for this practice, but if you do it carefully, it can be enjoyable. Almost nobody has ended up in the hospital from doing this, so don’t be scared — and don’t be reckless either.
Some people don’t feel anything during this practice; you may feel pleasure or nothing at all. If you feel nothing, don’t assume that being more forceful will make it better.
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The name fisting comes from the concept of filling a hole with a fist. Its popularity grew hand in hand with the rise of the internet, the accessibility of sex toys, and the convenience of online shopping.
To talk about this topic, we reached out to real Reddit veterans. Thanks to them, we got some honest insights and first-hand experiences that really helped shape this piece.
For water-based lube, you can pick premixed ones like LubeLife, which is ready to use and made from safe, body-friendly ingredients. Or you can go for powder-based lubes like K-Lube and X-Lube, which you mix with water before using — they’re made mostly from cellulose, a plant-based material. Just avoid J-Lube — it used to be popular, but it’s actually made for animals, mainly from bentonite clay, and has warnings about causing serious injuries if it gets inside the body.
Cheaper or Expensive , it really matters?
The answer is yes, it really matters. Buying from unreliable sources like Aliexpress, Temu, or no-name brands at the sex shop often means getting products that can be low-quality, made with unsafe materials, or just poorly designed — which can lead to discomfort or even injury
The recommendation we give you is from a Reddit user, who suggested buying new toys from these brands:
Bad Dragon — considered premium quality, known for their unique and fantasy-inspired designs.
Mr Hankey’s Toys — very popular for their wide variety and fun styles.
John Thomas Toys — based in the UK, offering lots of special and creative designs.
Topped Toys — Canadian brand, famous for making the best traditional butt plugs .
Nothosaur— known for innovative and artistic toy designs.
Twisted Beast— features a cool satanic or dark fantasy theme.
Organo Toys — their eggs are especially popular for discreet and versatile use.
Preparatives:
Fisting is the wedding of the bottoms , you need to wear your best clothes and use your best-quality toys with the person you enjoy more .
Before getting started , we have to clean our house let me show you , how to do it correctly .
1. Preparation and Equipment: Fist of all, you need an enema bag or douche with a 3 to 4 liters capacity (small pharmacy kits usually aren’t enough; at least 2 liters are recommended). You’ll also want digital scales to accurately measure the amount of water you put in and expel.
The key advice for this activity is to take it slow — there’s no need to prove anything to anyone. If it hurts, just stop. It’s like marathon training: you’re not expected to run 10 km on day one. You start at your own pace, and with consistent practice, you’ll get a lot better over time.
One of the most important tips they shared with us is about breathing — deep, slow, and controlled. It’s all about learning to connect with those internal muscles through your breath (kind of like yoga) and relaxing them on command when you exhale. This helps you open up and avoid getting too anxious or overstimulated. One person said that after 6–12 months of struggling to get that long neck into the second hole, their body finally relaxed and just “sucked it right in” once they started focusing on their breathing.
The Art of Boxing your Guts
This one’s for everyone who’s ready to take things to the next level and introduce their fist with care and respect. Think of it like learning a new skill—start slow, use plenty of lube, and warm up with fingers first. Keep your hand relaxed and slightly curved, like a gentle fist, and breathe deeply to help your body open up.
It’s all about patience and listening to your partner’s signals—there’s no rush or pressure. Like any good boxer, you want to control your pace and know when to advance or retreat. Mastering this art takes time, but with practice, you’ll get smoother, safer, and more confident every step of the way.
