A couple of weeks ago, I made a post on Reddit where I shared some tips I wish I had known before getting into this practice. Some of them came straight from my own mistakes; others came from digging around the internet and learning things the hard way. What I didn’t expect was that so many FF veterans would jump into the discussion and drop some of the best advice I’ve ever read on the subject.
Honestly, it felt like skipping years of trial and error in a single thread.
Size doesn’t matter (and that’s not just a slogan)
Most of them talked about something far more important than passion or size: choosing your top with empathy and intelligence.
First of all the fisting community works like a market, whether we like the comparison or not. Everyone wants the best possible product, the best possible experience—and that applies to both sides. But no matter how good the “hardware” looks on paper, it’s useless if the person behind it doesn’t know how to use it properly.
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You don’t want to practice anything with someone who doesn’t communicate, doesn’t listen, or brushes off your needs. That’s a red flag, not a challenge to overcome.
A lot of empathy is required, and it goes both ways. Sharing experiences as both top and bottom helps more than people tend to admit. When you’ve been on both sides, you learn what actually works in practice and what only sounds good in theory. In the end, it’s simple: give what you’d like to receive.
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Trust is the real engine here, and it matters far more than porn makes it seem. Without trust, everything else is just noise.
Porn is not real life (even if your brain sometimes forgets)
We all know porn isn’t real life. Most of us have hired a plumber at some point, and none of us ended up giving him a handjob. As obvious as that sounds, your brain doesn’t always get the message.
You can’t compare yourself to someone who’s been doing this for years, has a completely different body, weighs differently, or simply has way more free time than you. A lot of P🌟 do this for a living—you could call them high-performance athletes. The rest of us? Weekend warriors at best.
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Movie magic applies here too. How big something looks depends on camera angles, distance, perspective, the size of the toy compared to the person, and how close the camera is. Reality plays by different rules.
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And of course, porn never shows the boring parts: the preparation, the patience, the communication. Just a few kisses, a hard cut, and suddenly we’re at the finish line. Real life doesn’t work like that, no matter how much we wish it did.
Three short tips in one (because common sense still matters)
Would you rather drive a Seat León or a Lamborghini? If I had to choose, I know which keys I’m grabbing. The same logic applies to sex toys and lube.
Don’t buy unsafe or low-quality products. Pay attention to what you’re actually purchasing: the material, whether it’s body-safe, the type of lube you’re using, and whether the toy really suits your body. Just like you wouldn’t buy a video game your PC can’t run, you shouldn’t buy a toy your body can’t handle. Your body is a machine too—and it doesn’t come with unlimited upgrades.
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People always say, “Lube is your best friend,” but they usually stop there. The full sentence should be: lube is your best friend, but only if you choose the right one. And don’t try to reinvent the wheel—if a lube comes highly recommended, stick to it. Don’t start playing mad scientist in your kitchen expecting a homemade experiment to work just as well as something designed for the job.
Manicures aren’t just for women
You wouldn’t let someone you don’t trust walk into your house—and you certainly wouldn’t let them into your body if it could lead to bleeding. Treat your ass the same way you treat your home: only trusted guests, handled with care
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Learn how to bottom sober—without poppers or any other drugs. Pain exists for a reason: it’s your body waving a red flag, telling you something is wrong. Ignoring those signals is like driving blind. However , don’t try to outsmart your body—evolution made it this way for a reason.
Also your ass is very sensitive, it bleeds easily, and you need to stay aware of what’s happening at all times. Ignoring that doesn’t make you brave—it just makes you injured.
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So yeah, forget the myths and the highlight reels. Go slow, choose well, use your head as much as your body, and don’t try to “win” at this. There’s nothing to prove, even though it may feel like you need to. If everyone involved feels safe, heard, and satisfied, you’re already doing it right. Just flow with your body and act wisely after hearing it. I hope this resume helps as well as they served to me . See you soon !!!
First of all, this isn’t any kind of promotion, but I need to talk about this product because it ended up being even better than I expected.
Let’s start with the basics. As its name says, this is a lube — a powder lube specialized for fisting and large toys. That already explains why it comes in a relatively large format: 100 g of powder.
Made Different
A bit of context first. This lube is well known in the fisting and large-toy community, which doesn’t mean it’s bad or limited to other practices. At first glance, 100 g for $28 may seem expensive, especially compared to many cheaper liquid lubes. However, that comparison isn’t entirely fair.
Powder lube is far more economical in the long run. Throughout my life I’ve tried many options: silicone, liquid water-based lubes, and even other powder lubes. Two days ago, we finally received this product.
The instructions are simple: fill the measuring cup with powder, pour it into a bottle, and add water. In my case, I used a 1.5 L bottle that was already less than half full of water. One important detail: you need to prepare it at least 30 minutes before use to let it fully hydrate.
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Feelings
I’ve had bad experiences with other powder lubes that irritated my colon, and with water-based lubes that barely lasted two sessions. This one genuinely surprised me.
I felt no pain or irritation, and it didn’t dry out quickly. The texture is sticky and dense, similar to honey, but noticeably lighter and easier to work with. One measuring cup easily lasts at least two full sessions. I filled my bottle and still had plenty left afterward.
Unlike some lubes I’ve used before, it may get on your blankets, but it doesn’t turn them into a sticky or slippery mess. With just a bit of water, everything goes back to normal.
Safe usage
This is an ideal option for people who have experienced irritation in the past with other lubes. Because it is a pure powder lube, it contains no sugars, additives, fillers, odors, or flavors that could cause unwanted reactions.
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Its clean composition makes it especially suitable for long or intense sessions, where consistency and tolerance really matter. It’s also perfect for a “white-glove job”: everything stays clean, discreet, and controlled. No smell, no sticky residue, no clues left behind — like a true white-glove thief, in and out without a trace.
Here are a few tips for beginners.
When mixing the product, remember that density depends entirely on the ratio of water to powder. If you want it thicker or more liquid, think back to basic chemistry—or even something as simple as dissolving cocoa powder in milk. This time, instead of adding less powder, try using less water.
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It lasts longer than other powder lubes due to the lack of fillers and unnecessary additives. The powder itself has a shelf life of around three years. However, if you live in a humid environment, always close the container properly and store it in a dry place. Otherwise, the next time you open it, you may find a putty-like texture, where the powder binds together into a compact, cohesive mass. You’re not going to play football—you don’t need a ball.
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Don’t throw away leftovers. You can easily give them a second life by storing them away from sunlight. Prepared lube can last up to 14 days if stored correctly, which means far more sessions than you might expect in a single week.
Hope you enjoyed the review! We had a blast using this product and doing the ‘hard work’ to see what it can really do. Being completely objective, this product surprised me more than I expected. I thought it would be like many other products I’ve tried: some very good points but also serious red flags. Instead, I got plenty of lube with minimal effort and felt no pain—it genuinely shocked me
Did you ever have fantasies about controlling electricity, transforming into Thor, the god of thunder? Well, this is not the post you are searching for.
Tesla was not prepared for the many different uses a Tesla coil would eventually have. Still, using small electrical zaps has always been fascinating.
Origins
Do you remember the classic scene of students giving electric shocks to frog legs? After that, the legs magically begin to contract, as if the frog’s spirit were still there. If we discard the ideas of frogs and spirits, the explanation is actually much simpler—and much older than you might think.
A Mediterranean Painted Frog, Discoglossus pictus, in a water pond in a Maltese valley, Malta
We have to go back to the past , years 1800s . During that time, electrical belts were designed and sold as cures for impotence. Lust ran largely out of control, and it was not until the early 1900s that such devices stopped being seen as legitimate treatments and began to be questioned.
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Human fascination with electricity goes even further back. In Ancient Egypt, electric fish were used as a form of healing therapy.
As always, when sex enters the equation, human creativity tends to break walls that were never supposed to be broken.
How it works?
This therapy is usually used in BDSM sessions, where the dom or sadist uses a remote control. They send shocks that might be used as pain for the sub or to trigger uncontrollable impulses. The usual format of these toys focuses on erogenous zones, such as the penis, the big “O”, the nipples, and the vagina.
The idea of this practice is to switch the power until you reach the point where it hurts but is still pleasurable, right at the limit of IT HURTSSSS STOPPPP. If you want to have a really intense experience, the BDSM modality is like the hard mode in video games, way more extreme than its brother.
Red Flags
As with all practices, this one carries some risks if you don’t do it carefully. Make sure the intensity you use is appropriate, and remember that while the voltage adapts to your body’s resistance, this does not mean it is safe near the thorax. This practice can be safe and pleasurable, but you need to pay attention. You are playing with electricity, and the only thing that makes it safer is the high impedance of your body.
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Be aware of what you are doing. Wet skin can burn you, and long sessions at high intensity may cause neuropathic damage. If you have epilepsy, heart problems, or any infection, stay away from this technology—you don’t want to cause damage that cannot be repaired.
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Do not consume drugs. Do not use items that were not designed for sexual practices. Stay in full control of your body at all times, and at the first minimal warning sign, turn it off. It is always better to lower the intensity a little than to cause harm you may later regret.
Green Flags
As simple as it sounds, the total experience is far more intense and different than anything you’ve experienced before. The use of electricity can contract pelvic muscles, making the session even more exciting. Let’s do some basic training.
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The BDSM benefits are all about trust, communication, and higher peaks of dopamine. For pain lovers, damage is always on the list—I’m one of them. It’s not just about the pain, it’s about the mix of sensations that makes you beg for more pleasure.
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We all know the red flags are bigger than the green flags, but the key is that with caution, almost all red flags disappear, enhancing the green ones. It may sound dangerous and difficult, but with patience and good communication, it can be as safe as any other consensual practice.
After all this explanation, are you still interested in transforming into the omega of an electrical circuit, or do you prefer to be the bad B at the police station?
Remember: listening is just as important as doing. Communication is your real safety switch. Have fun, little bulbs.
When we ordered two art pieces from them, we needed a lube to try them properly. We went for the cheapest option we could find, expecting something basic… but it turned out to be way better than we imagined.
BREED’R SHOULD I?
You shouldn’t just try it — you must. It’s compatible with both sounding and fisting (and more), so it truly covers the best of both worlds (and holes ). Being water-silicone based, it’s not as long-lasting as a full-silicone lube, but it’s safe for toys and far better than standard water-based lubes.
My toys are still in perfect condition. And if you spill some on the bed — don’t worry. In a couple of hours, there won’t be any trace of your naughty adventures.
I’ve used it for sounding and fisting, and trust me — a bit of this lube can make a huge difference during long sessions. Other lubes require a lot for a single anal session. You can also use it as a regular lube, but this one performs better with less.
No burning, no irritation like some powder-based lubes — just smooth, pain-free pleasure that lets you take whatever comes your way.
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VERDICT
One great power comes with great use. This lube doesn’t just keep up with Hankey’s toys — it enhances them. It’s practical, clean, toy-safe, and honestly underrated. If you’re into long sessions or heavy toys, give it a try — your body (and your sheets ) will thank you. For more about Fisting , reviews or Hankey’s Toys .
Sorry, we really don’t know how to make cupcakes or pretzels, but… we know something better that you should try — it’s called Muffing.
What is muffing?
The name “Muffing” comes from the book “Fucking Trans Women” . We know that muffing could be related to baking (muffins , baking , cakes , etc…) — after all, everyone wants to dip the finger on «Nutella » because no one wants to miss it .
Apply this idea to another part of your body that are not your buns. Fans of BBNO$ (we love BBNO$) or members of the trans community — often affectionately called “the dolls” — could also enjoy this explosive practice without having a kitty cat.
Have you ever missed your “Queen’s Crown Jewels”? Traditional sumo wrestlers and cold swimmers are used to this strange magic trick when the wizard comes, and, like in a Dan Da Dan episode, your treasure disappears.
We could call it a pool game, introducing the 8-ball into the pocket — anything else is left to your imagination.
Bakery tutorial
We aren’t Gandalf, and we show our tricks — f***k you, Gandalf.
Without using any complex words, we’ll show you how to do it. Ready?
Get a “bubble” in your hand, apply a little pressure, and you’ll see the entire path your balloon takes. Even before it “disappears,” your finger will follow that path until you reach your inguinal canal.
This practice isn’t as dangerous as it might sound. You should be patient on your first attempt. Remember, this part of the body isn’t naturally made for this practice, but if you do it carefully, it can be enjoyable. Almost nobody has ended up in the hospital from doing this, so don’t be scared — and don’t be reckless either.
Some people don’t feel anything during this practice; you may feel pleasure or nothing at all. If you feel nothing, don’t assume that being more forceful will make it better.
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This might sound awkward but some of us have some curiosity about this practice and how it feels.
For those newbies (like me), this practice refers to the act of introducing an object into your ____ (urethra).
Yes, at first, it sounds as strange as it looks, but why do some people do this? There might be pleasure involved, or maybe a fetish behind it.
As of now, I’m just an outside observer, so I’ll give you a balanced view — and you can decide whether to “smash or pass.”
RISKS
Of course, there are risks. You’re doing something similar to ____ for your ____. The chances of infection increase significantly, and as always, if you push beyond what you should, you might cause irreversible damage that could require surgery.
If that doesn’t scare you, I don’t know whether you’re brave, curious, or just crazy — but hey, let me give you a hand with this topic.
WHY?
Why would someone try it after all those risks? Self-exploration — that’s where most people begin. The idea of introducing objects into your pipi may sound weird, but for those more experienced, it might sound exciting.
Some describe it as a mix of pleasure and mental focus. The idea of being penetrated in another way may sound curious: if it feels good for them, why not for me? It’s also connected to certain fetishes, just like pegging or some BDSM sessions, which can make this practice seem more exciting than it first appears.
MATERIALS
Still there? If you’re still reading, you should know that, like many other practices, this one can be expensive. But I’d rather invest in quality materials to avoid harm or complications than use regular objects.
Some people buy beginner sets made of surgical steel. Also, if progress with fisting feels slow, imagine introducing steel into your personal pencil. So take it slow, don’t rush, and buy plenty of lube — you’ll need a lot. If you don’t have a syringe(needleless) or applicator, get one; it makes applying lubricant much easier.
I hope you like this , and I will be interested in show many more niche practices . Also for god’s sake be precautious , and don’t be rude this may cause you extreme pain .
If you’re not careful, these are some of the things that could literally go wrong:
Tears and lacerations: Inserting the hand can cause tearing in the vaginal or rectal walls, especially if done without care or without enough lubrication (please — buy the damn lube).
Intestinal perforation: In extreme cases, deep insertion can perforate the intestine, which is a serious medical emergency (we know going deeper is thrilling, but sometimes it’s a red flag, not a green light).
Infections: Bacteria can easily enter the vaginal or rectal tract during the act, increasing the risk of anal infections (wash your hands, clean your toys, and use gloves — rubber is sexy too).
Internal bleeding: Rough movements or lack of proper lube can cause internal bleeding (talk to your partner — don’t suffer in silence; your body has limits).
SAFETY
We all know safety is cooler than ending up in the ER. But if you’ve never paid attention to the risks before… well, let me give you not just a hand — but a whole fist of advice:
First of all, for this glorious mission you’ll need: gloves, fisting lube, hands (duh), communication, and hygiene. We know you’re naughty, but you’ve got to be clean before your hands get dirty. «This message will self-destruct in 5 seconds.» «GOOD LUCK, BUDDY.»
Communication: Before practicing fisting, talk boundaries and safety signals with your partner. “My safe word is tortoise… you can use it if you want to.”
Lubrication: Use a LOT of lube to reduce friction and avoid tears. “Your butt is like an engine — the more lube you use, the better it runs.”
Hygiene: Wash your hands and trim your nails. “Manicures are for everyone — we know they look fabulous, but your bottom will thank you.”
Gradual Progression: Start with a finger or two, then slowly work your way up to the full fist. “We all want to get to the part where the fist goes in and the butt gets boxed, but before that… patience. As we say: ‘Con paciencia y saliva, el elefante se la metió a la hormiga.’”
Listen to the Body: If there’s sharp pain or discomfort, stop immediately. Never force it. Ever.
The keys for this practice are patience ,trust each other , comunication , be calm and don’t rush this is not a race.
We know it’s hard to stay chill when someone’s punching your insides with love — but trust us, patience is the mother of pleasure.
The name fisting comes from the concept of filling a hole with a fist. Its popularity grew hand in hand with the rise of the internet, the accessibility of sex toys, and the convenience of online shopping.
To talk about this topic, we reached out to real Reddit veterans. Thanks to them, we got some honest insights and first-hand experiences that really helped shape this piece.
For water-based lube, you can pick premixed ones like LubeLife, which is ready to use and made from safe, body-friendly ingredients. Or you can go for powder-based lubes like K-Lube and X-Lube, which you mix with water before using — they’re made mostly from cellulose, a plant-based material. Just avoid J-Lube — it used to be popular, but it’s actually made for animals, mainly from bentonite clay, and has warnings about causing serious injuries if it gets inside the body.
Cheaper or Expensive , it really matters?
The answer is yes, it really matters. Buying from unreliable sources like Aliexpress, Temu, or no-name brands at the sex shop often means getting products that can be low-quality, made with unsafe materials, or just poorly designed — which can lead to discomfort or even injury
The recommendation we give you is from a Reddit user, who suggested buying new toys from these brands:
Bad Dragon — considered premium quality, known for their unique and fantasy-inspired designs.
Mr Hankey’s Toys — very popular for their wide variety and fun styles.
John Thomas Toys — based in the UK, offering lots of special and creative designs.
Topped Toys — Canadian brand, famous for making the best traditional butt plugs .
Nothosaur— known for innovative and artistic toy designs.
Twisted Beast— features a cool satanic or dark fantasy theme.
Organo Toys — their eggs are especially popular for discreet and versatile use.
Preparatives:
Fisting is the wedding of the bottoms , you need to wear your best clothes and use your best-quality toys with the person you enjoy more .
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1. Preparation and Equipment: Fist of all, you need an enema bag or douche with a 3 to 4 liters capacity (small pharmacy kits usually aren’t enough; at least 2 liters are recommended). You’ll also want digital scales to accurately measure the amount of water you put in and expel.
The key advice for this activity is to take it slow — there’s no need to prove anything to anyone. If it hurts, just stop. It’s like marathon training: you’re not expected to run 10 km on day one. You start at your own pace, and with consistent practice, you’ll get a lot better over time.
One of the most important tips they shared with us is about breathing — deep, slow, and controlled. It’s all about learning to connect with those internal muscles through your breath (kind of like yoga) and relaxing them on command when you exhale. This helps you open up and avoid getting too anxious or overstimulated. One person said that after 6–12 months of struggling to get that long neck into the second hole, their body finally relaxed and just “sucked it right in” once they started focusing on their breathing.
The Art of Boxing your Guts
This one’s for everyone who’s ready to take things to the next level and introduce their fist with care and respect. Think of it like learning a new skill—start slow, use plenty of lube, and warm up with fingers first. Keep your hand relaxed and slightly curved, like a gentle fist, and breathe deeply to help your body open up.
It’s all about patience and listening to your partner’s signals—there’s no rush or pressure. Like any good boxer, you want to control your pace and know when to advance or retreat. Mastering this art takes time, but with practice, you’ll get smoother, safer, and more confident every step of the way.
