Etiqueta: sexuality

  • Muffing and Baking

    Sorry, we really don’t know how to make cupcakes or pretzels, but…
    we know something better that you should try — it’s called Muffing.

    What is muffing?

    The name “Muffing” comes from the book “Fucking Trans Women” . We know that muffing could be related to baking (muffins , baking , cakes , etc…) — after all, everyone wants to dip the finger on «Nutella » because no one wants to miss it .

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    Apply this idea to another part of your body that are not your buns. Fans of BBNO$ (we love BBNO$) or members of the trans community — often affectionately called “the dolls” — could also enjoy this explosive practice without having a kitty cat.

    Have you ever missed your “Queen’s Crown Jewels”? Traditional sumo wrestlers and cold swimmers are used to this strange magic trick when the wizard comes, and, like in a Dan Da Dan episode, your treasure disappears.

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    We could call it a pool game, introducing the 8-ball into the pocket — anything else is left to your imagination.

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    We aren’t Gandalf, and we show our tricks — f***k you, Gandalf.

    Without using any complex words, we’ll show you how to do it. Ready?

    Get a “bubble” in your hand, apply a little pressure, and you’ll see the entire path your balloon takes. Even before it “disappears,” your finger will follow that path until you reach your inguinal canal.

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    We’re halfway through our adventure. Your finger will pass through the inguinal canal and explore it gently, much like petting a kitty cat.

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    Advise

    This practice isn’t as dangerous as it might sound. You should be patient on your first attempt. Remember, this part of the body isn’t naturally made for this practice, but if you do it carefully, it can be enjoyable. Almost nobody has ended up in the hospital from doing this, so don’t be scared — and don’t be reckless either.

    Some people don’t feel anything during this practice; you may feel pleasure or nothing at all. If you feel nothing, don’t assume that being more forceful will make it better.

    We hope you like this post as much as we love making it , see you soon!!!!

  • Discover your turn-ons

    Here at Sensavite, we’re like magic genies—solving your questions and giving you solid knowledge.

    What is a fetish?

    When we think about fetishes, most people immediately picture scenes from Fifty Shades of Grey—the girl being spanked, dominated, or engaging in extreme practices (always dressed in latex clothes). But the real meaning of the word fetish has a very different origin.

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    The term fetish comes from the Portuguese word feitico, which referred to sacred or magical objects used by African tribes. The French later adapted it into fétiche (these French are always behind some of the rarer practices). Back then, it had absolutely nothing to do with sex.

    One of the first psychologists to study sexual fetishes was Sigmund Freud. He suggested that being attracted to objects rather than people was linked to fears or anxieties from childhood, even associating it with what he called the “absence of the penis” in women. In simple terms, Freud believed fetishes were a psychological defense against anxiety.

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    But modern science sees things differently.
    Today, we know Freud’s theories (we simply don’t use psychoanalysis) were limited and overly focused on the phallus. Fetishes don’t come from fear, trauma, or deficiency—they’re simply part of the natural diversity of human sexuality. People can find certain objects, body parts, or situations exciting, and that’s perfectly normal.

    So yes, fetishes exist, but they’re just another way humans experience desire. No shame—just curiosity.

    Stranger Things?

    Keep calm, we’re not talking about the Netflix series. Fetishes are just different ways people explore pleasure and reach the same goal. Why does being so naughty feel so good, while others prefer simpler things?

    Well, as an amateur in the subject, here’s a simple way to understand it: think of fetishes like colors. We all have a favorite, and it’s not always the same as someone else’s—but we all know that movie legend who’s always chasing femme fatales in latex, dodging whips, and somehow obsessed with clowns. Fetishes work the same way—different things excite different people.

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    Some fetishes come from curiosity—people want to feel what a certain act is like. Others enjoy role-playing, stepping into positions or personas they wouldn’t normally experience. It’s like theater: in your fantasy, you can be anyone—from an innocent princess to an evil king. The world is your stage, and this is your story—you choose your mask.

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    And here’s the key (or two ,for fans of chastity): consent. Almost all fetish practices are safe and enjoyable because everyone involved agrees and sets boundaries. That’s what makes exploring fantasies fun instead of scary.

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    Some fetishes are dedicated to body parts or types of people. Being attracted to pierced people is just as valid as someone who likes feet or noses. Some girls prefer tall guys, while some guys are attracted to dominant women. Others may enjoy specific clothing, voices, or even behaviors—it all depends on what sparks desire.

    Conclusion

    The important thing to remember is that there’s no right or wrong when it comes to what excites you, as long as everything happens consensually and safely. Fetishes are just another way humans explore pleasure and creativity in their sexual lives.

    Think of it as a spectrum of desire—everyone has their own shades and combinations. The key is communication, respect, and having fun while exploring. Remember, without variety we would all be the same person.

    We’ll soon explore more about fetishes and how to embrace them safely and joyfully.
    Stay curious, stay respectful—stay spicy! 🌶️

  • Hankey’s  Gift

    Hankey’s  Gift

    Chapter 1 : Giant Surprises from Hankey’s

    Last week, we received a mysterious gift from Hankey’s Toys. Without thinking twice, we opened it out of sheer curiosity—and what we found left us speechless: two enormous toys, bigger than my forearm. My friends and I couldn’t stop laughing, probably harder than we ever had before.

    Once we caught our breath, we looked up their names and sizes. In my hands were the “big brother of Cerberus” and a “mutant seahorse”. While my friends were terrified, I couldn’t contain my excitement—it was my very first Hankey’s Toys, and all I wanted was to take them home and give them a proper chance.

    At first, I thought I could handle them as easily as my other toys—especially the XL ones from Lovehoney, which were already half the size of my laptop screen. My past self would have never believed that one day I’d be riding a seahorse on land and taking on the mighty Beowulf.

    Chapter 2 :Under the Sea 🌊🐎

    The Olympian gods have officially abandoned me. Poseidon betrayed me: he sent me a hippocampus. Yes, a hippocampus—the red one. As a Percy Jackson fan, I thought, “Hell yeah, this is awesome!” — a true blessing from the god of the seas. But then I woke up, saw it in my room, and immediately realized… no.

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    I didn’t know it was a declaration of war until the horse’s head stared at me like it was judging my entire existence. Had I done something wrong? Was Olympus actually some kind of kinky mafia, sending passive-aggressive warnings in the form of sea creatures… or just a very weird gift?

    All I had to work with were the hippocampus itself and its judgmental head. And let’s be real—I’m not a forensic scientist. But as a devoted Batman fan, I took it upon myself to analyze the situation like the World’s Greatest Detective. Hours of staring, poking, and muttering nonsense later, I concluded: it wasn’t dangerous. Just… wildly confusing.

    So, like the demigod-wannabe I am, I dropped to my knees and prayed to Poseidon, asking for guidance. I love Greek mythology—I know what types of prayers gods like… especially if your rituals involve water-based “blessings.”

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    After this experience, if you have the same kind of chaotic luck as me, take note:

    • 31 cm is a lot. Be patient. My first time, I was shaking from the adrenaline—the mix of fear and excitement was brutal. Don’t push yourself more than you can handle.
    • Sea-horses have some natural lines and curves that help you progress. It’s bigger than many other toys you’ve seen; my case was medium-sized, and wow… exhausting. More tiring than an hour of skating.
    • The base is amazing. While other “toys” fall over or don’t stay still, the sea-horse handled it like a champ. My model was very flexible, which was scary but totally worth it.
    • The sensation of being filled was strange, but the curvy form made it incredible.
    • Compatible with a suction cup, so you can attach it to the wall or floor, and it’s machine-friendly as well.

    Take three things—you’ll thank me later: plenty of lube, a sturdy stool (it will save your shoulders if you’re a beginner and don’t want to end up looking like Quasimodo while handling it), and a towel to avoid making a mess.

    Are you ready to disobey some gods?

    Chapter 3 : The secret Trial 🛡️🐉👑

    “Hear, hear, my people, a tale I bring,
    of a fearless hero, ready for anything;
    Grendel feared him, the dragon roared,
    but Beowulf, brave, his sword he soared.

    The secret trial has been revealed,
    emerging from the jaws of a fearsome hound;
    even Beowulf could not defeat it—
    shall you be the one to stand your ground?

    As legends are not always true,
    this embarrassing tale is unsuitable for a proper crew;
    lions roared, and chaos followed,
    and that night, only moans could be heard by a few.

    Oh mighty Beowulf, how embarrassed you look…
    and then, a strange, hairy snake appeared.

    I cannot say what it carried,
    but the battle thrilled me, the chaos amazed me;
    that strange encounter left me dizzy with excitement,
    and I knew this tale would be sung for ages.

    As many of you know, this is the true legend of Beowulf, right? RIGHT???
    Well, I have the mission of becoming a man, and like Hercules, I have some trials I must pass.
    Poor Beowulf—what an experience he had, and how embarrassed he was!
    That’s not my case. I can proudly claim just how much excitement I feel.

    Coming back to reality—if you’ve read the whole post, you know Hankey’s Toys gifted me the Beowulf toy, the massive, black, dog-inspired mythical creature.

    Beowulf

    It looks straighter than the seahorse, which makes insertion easier. Its base is smaller, so it’s not as stable as the seahorse, but its appearance is so striking that it could easily pass as a trophy.

    The sensation is incredibly immersive—you really feel like you’re riding a powerful mythical creature.
    Even though this toy is bigger than the seahorse, progression feels smoother. You don’t feel like you’re going too slow because of the straight design, and it doesn’t widen unexpectedly, which makes the experience very enjoyable.

    Are you brave enough to take on the challenge yourself? ⚔️🐕💪

    Chapter 4 :Victory and Lessons Learned 🏆

    After surviving the secret trial and taming Beowulf, I finally caught my breath.
    The Olympian gods might still be watching, and the creatures of myth might still lurk, but for now… I had won my battle.

    I learned a few things along the way:

    • Patience is everything. Don’t rush the trials, or the mythical beasts will remind you who’s in charge.
    • Preparation is key. Lube, a sturdy stool, and a towel are more than tools—they’re your weapons of choice.
    • Courage comes in many forms. Sometimes it’s facing a monster, sometimes it’s staring down your own chaos… and sometimes it’s holding a giant Beowulf toy without breaking anything.

    As for the rewards? Oh, they’re unforgettable. The thrill, the excitement, the sense of accomplishment… all worth every moment of fear, adrenaline, and confusion.

    So here I stand, a little wiser, a little braver, and a lot more exhausted.

    Here I will show the image of all the beasts I managed to tame that day.

    Chapter 5 :Thanks for the Magic and Fun

    pecial thanks to the Hankey’s Toys team for sending me these products. I had always wanted to experience what one of their creations felt like, and now I can finally share it with more people. They truly care about supporting small brands and influencers, and their encouragement means a lot. If you’re looking for creativity and passion, Hankey’s Toys is your best choice.

    This experience has been incredibly rewarding. As both a reviewer and a blogger, I genuinely enjoyed doing this work. And as a Spanish speaker, it also gave me the chance to learn so many new things in a foreign language—English.

    With gratitude and excitement, I close this adventure… until the next one. Thank you all, and see you soon!

  • FISTING FOR DUMMIES

    WHAT IS «FISTING»?

    The name fisting comes from the concept of filling a hole with a fist. Its popularity grew hand in hand with the rise of the internet, the accessibility of sex toys, and the convenience of online shopping.

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    To talk about this topic, we reached out to real Reddit veterans. Thanks to them, we got some honest insights and first-hand experiences that really helped shape this piece.

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    Where I should start?

    If you are really interested , in trying this , you should know LUBE is essential but not all lubes are useful.

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    For water-based lube, you can pick premixed ones like LubeLife, which is ready to use and made from safe, body-friendly ingredients. Or you can go for powder-based lubes like K-Lube and X-Lube, which you mix with water before using — they’re made mostly from cellulose, a plant-based material. Just avoid J-Lube — it used to be popular, but it’s actually made for animals, mainly from bentonite clay, and has warnings about causing serious injuries if it gets inside the body.

    Cheaper or Expensive , it really matters?

    The answer is yes, it really matters. Buying from unreliable sources like Aliexpress, Temu, or no-name brands at the sex shop often means getting products that can be low-quality, made with unsafe materials, or just poorly designed — which can lead to discomfort or even injury

    The recommendation we give you is from a Reddit user, who suggested buying new toys from these brands:

    • Bad Dragon — considered premium quality, known for their unique and fantasy-inspired designs.
    • Mr Hankey’s Toys — very popular for their wide variety and fun styles.
    • John Thomas Toys — based in the UK, offering lots of special and creative designs.
    • Topped Toys — Canadian brand, famous for making the best traditional butt plugs .
    • Nothosaur — known for innovative and artistic toy designs.
    • Twisted Beast — features a cool satanic or dark fantasy theme.
    • Organo Toys — their eggs are especially popular for discreet and versatile use.

    Preparatives:

    Fisting is the wedding of the bottoms , you need to wear your best clothes and use your best-quality toys with the person you enjoy more .

    Before getting started , we have to clean our house let me show you , how to do it correctly .

    1. Preparation and Equipment:
    Fist of all, you need an enema bag or douche with a 3 to 4 liters capacity (small pharmacy kits usually aren’t enough; at least 2 liters are recommended). You’ll also want digital scales to accurately measure the amount of water you put in and expel.

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    2. Start Slowly:
    Begin by introducing a small amount of water to avoid any uncomfortable reactions or cramps.

    3. Positioning:
    Stay in an upright position during the process to help the water flow smoothly and prevent blockages.

    4. Be Patient:
    Take your time — rushing can cause discomfort or injury. The key is to be calm and gentle throughout.

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    Racing or Fisting?

    The key advice for this activity is to take it slow — there’s no need to prove anything to anyone. If it hurts, just stop. It’s like marathon training: you’re not expected to run 10 km on day one. You start at your own pace, and with consistent practice, you’ll get a lot better over time.

    One of the most important tips they shared with us is about breathing — deep, slow, and controlled. It’s all about learning to connect with those internal muscles through your breath (kind of like yoga) and relaxing them on command when you exhale. This helps you open up and avoid getting too anxious or overstimulated. One person said that after 6–12 months of struggling to get that long neck into the second hole, their body finally relaxed and just “sucked it right in” once they started focusing on their breathing.

    The Art of Boxing your Guts

    This one’s for everyone who’s ready to take things to the next level and introduce their fist with care and respect. Think of it like learning a new skill—start slow, use plenty of lube, and warm up with fingers first. Keep your hand relaxed and slightly curved, like a gentle fist, and breathe deeply to help your body open up.

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    It’s all about patience and listening to your partner’s signals—there’s no rush or pressure. Like any good boxer, you want to control your pace and know when to advance or retreat. Mastering this art takes time, but with practice, you’ll get smoother, safer, and more confident every step of the way.

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